Off Topic += Muse Guilt, Mine and Yours

[blue_bells]

Despite occasionally empathising with character's plights in fanfic, when was the last time you actually sat back after writing something and thought, "Huh. I'm not sure how I feel about that. I think I feel... douche-y"?

I don't mean in an intellectual way because you know the difference between right and wrong, because you know that if such-and-such were to happen in real life that it would be reprehensible. Writing and reading is escapism, so the rules are different. I mean that feeling you get when somebody - whose opinion you care about - looks at you like you've betrayed or disappointed them and you didn't see it coming.

I hit 44k on my big bang last night and was left with this feeling. I'm calling it muse guilt. I was so bemused that I had to stop halfway through the afternoon and write to one of my friends about it. Don't worry, this is not actually keeping me up at night, but I wonder what it means that I haven't had this experience writing in the last six months on the myriad of other stories. I know I'm lingering on this a day later because I'm running on two hours of sleep, we've had an abrupt change to colder weather, and I've been living and breathing these characters for over three months.

I know this happens to a lot of people through the course of their writing. It's not quite contrition, but it's still fascinating.

So, when's the last time you had muse guilt? What were you writing at the time?

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[http://users.livejournal.com/_bluebells/]

It's sort of sad. I can't remember the first fic I ever wrote, but I rode that Cloud/Sephiroth 'ship as hard as Seifer/Squall - I only joined the series from FFVII. I like antagonism and rivalry as much as I love greater partnerships and bromances.

That need you talk about to assign traditional gender roles with familiar male and female qualities was, and still is, actually pretty common among learning writers. I know I did it, too. I was pretty annoyed when I realised, but it's just something that comes with social awareness and maturity. I like men being men, being just who they are, however that is, so it only matters to me that characters preserve their personality in fic.

[ladyknightanka.livejournal.com]

If you start with manga/anime/Japanese creations as your first fandom, you kind of can't help it. Like me, I adore CLAMP manga, though I haven't been reading manga much lately (CLAMP loves messing with my head), but most mangaka and anime creators feminize one man in the relationship. When I got into live action shows more, it became easier to distinguish that aspect of fandom from reality. And ditto what you said, characterization is THE most important thing to me, reading or writing.